System Overhaul

People change from within the soul. This overhaul is difficult. It does not happen in one day. It takes its own course with all the inner strength struggling for a decent survival as  a human being – as one knows oneself since one had acquired some kind of perception about the world around, and gradually fixed some values those had grinded into one. The realization, precipitation and assimilation are very relative according to the psychological structure of every individual and the surroundings where each and everyone is brought up. Genetic traits also have roles to play. Commonly, every human being, after some point of time changes as per the ‘time’ and the ‘situations’ that he confronts. Shifting from all the embedded inner structure is not an easy task. In this  course of dismantling oneself, he  has learnt that there are so many different little factors those actually define the ‘time’ and ‘situations’ that we apparently see as the sole changing factors to cause a change in a man’s inner self.

It really matters that how sensitive is the psyche of the individual. Less sensitive men struggle less for adaptability to the changes occurring. However, those, who are very sensitive, have a big struggle within for the minutest change that is about to take place. There is a queer sense of premonition in them that changes are round the corner. The level of sense to sensitivity is a virtue or a vice is matter of great debate.  Extra sensitivity is the source of all creations, while this extra x-factor would suffice to make a man die within himself and may be transformed into a dead-man-walking with reasons unexplained to the world around. There is no one to understand the pain within, which he respects the most and does not want to share with others because it a scanty and futile effort and is cheap enough to endeavour and aspire with expectations that others are open to understand his problems. This pain has a sublimity that people in general generalize and make things like talk-of-the-town with such off-beat changes. It appears ridiculous to him to be discussed upon thus. He is one looking for a dark corner, not out of depression (though even medically it is defined thus), but of a strange security, a feeling of relief, that at last this corner assures him a shelter where his existence is not challenged and tested at every step to be at par with the definition of ‘man’ as a ‘social being’.

We broadly call them ‘introverts’.

All the positive, happy and festive forms of life are alive for those people who want to enjoy life. With more of progress in the realm of technology and entertainment the generations have started to live in the moments. It really does not matter what life was like or what life will be, preceded or conceded by that particular moment. “Carpe Diem”is not something new. It was there long before and it is there now in a new packet only. The introverts have learnt less to live happy because they do not live in moments, they have the vicious minds to ponder over the pros on cons of everything they do, they are more of uncompromising in nature from within, and in most of the times they keep on adjusting with the external nature which actually is a fatal compromise for them. All they do is that they pretend to be happy with whatever they have. Their only goal is to survive with a little respect for themselves because they can see and feel which others do not. It is not their fault, if they are born so. 

Happiness is a relative aspect. Those who want everyday like a party are happy with that and those who want to seclude themselves for a peaceful and continuous thought process in absolute isolation are happy with that too. So one must not feel that keeping isolated  is a disease or a vice or a sign of disrespect for others or selfishness. It is like an aspiration of a lonely holiday at a solitary beach confronting the vast sea, the fumes of the surfs replenishing the soul with all the life force. 

Changes are natural psychological development of soul where science cannot connect because science is more eager to find out the quotients and constants for the changes even.

It is rather logical to go with the popular proverb, “Change is the only constant”, which mutually respects all the sides.