Friday, 16 June 2023

35 Students, Everyday, Commit Suicide in India (NCRB)

Let's share some disturbing thoughts in the limelight of two very common notions of the parents in our country about their children:

"I know my child/children the best", and "My child/children is/are NOT like that...":

Do you know? --

In India 65% of the population is below 35 years of age. 

and 

35 STUDENTS in India commit suicide EVERYDAY. 

(National Crime Records Bureau Data of 2021) (Vide the Poster for more) 

These are as per records. There is a large part which never reaches the NCRB or anyone to be recorded.

The defense-mechanism of parents that “I know and love my child the best and the most” sometimes veil the truth behind and push them to the ends hardly anyone has any wind of… 

Fact #1:

A Madhyamik candidate and a CBSE examinee killed themselves in their respective homes after their parents rebuked them for chatting on social media just days before their board exams started.

 Fact #2:

A Class V student was found hanging from the ceiling fan at her New Town home on Saturday night. Hours before, her parents rebuked him for not giving attention to her studies.

 I Just wonder that when the parents are unaware of  what’s going on in their children’s mind, where in schools “mental health” classes (the lowest priority/importance is given to such classes) are mostly free periods to show off, the reactions of the Child rights activists to the above reports presented in the Parliament stressed on including life skill training in school curriculum as well as making mental health a part of mainstream healthcare and wellness programmes, are just fanciful ideas. 

Speaking on this issue, Dr Ashima Shrivastava, RCI Registered Child and Adult Psychologist said, “As we all know that there is a stigma related to mental health issues. Many times people are not able to approach professional help. So, in such a scenario there are Govt helplines and NGO helplines which are very helpful. First of all, they are free of cost and easily accessible and children could keep a note of these emergency numbers. These helplines provide a very confidential and non-judgemental support to the children when a person is in a high level of distress. To name a few in India, there is Sanjeevani and Sneh, run by NGOs, there are proper timings and languages present on their website.”


“There are a lot of strategies which one can use to keep a check on their emotions. Like it could be journaling their thoughts on a paper which gives them an outlet and then process them in a better manner and other could be recognising your triggers and be mindful of the things that are stressful and find the right ways to be with, identifying right coping mechanisms. A healthy sleep cycle is the most important thing. There are many grounding exercises that can be helpful in dealing with overwhelming stress and anxiety,” she added.

-- Arya Chatterjee

Data Courtesy:

National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB)

Indian Express

Thursday, 8 June 2023

Death Prompt to the AI: Backlash (oops!!! Sorry) Backslash-> Fullstop-> “Paraaaade, tuuurrrn left….”

The leftists love to idealise and that is very good. We all aspire to teach our own children the right ways of life through learning History and follow the footsteps of the great personalities world-wide. 

In Bengal this ‘idealisation’ by the communists is nothing but a vaunt luxury for the past few decades because the so-called leftists here have completely forgotten their social responsibilities to upgrade their perspectives according to the global changes that no-one can stop. They are still so very rigid in their own stand that they still argue in favour of abolition of English language study from the primary level of school education, or the ridiculous movement to stop the ubiquitous invasion of the computers in the offices of the state and try to justify these ‘tragic flaws’ with many more to add. The handful of true communists who have been upgrading their visions and in criticisms of such suicidal attempts to stop the great fall of the grand commune, with wise premonitions, were scornfully rejected in person and view. What the communists cannot endure is 'self-criticism'. They started expecting the leaflets interpreting the everlasting social paradigms as had been laid down by Marx and Lenin (I have direct experiences of many communists of the state pronouncing 'Lenin' as 'Lelin'; sometimes 'pure linen' called as 'pure Lenin') to be mugged up by the people at large. They pitifully failed to inculcate the modern social perspectives in the light of the socio-political theories of Marx and Lenin. And in doing so, unknowingly, they have turned this entirely flexible and invaluable philosophy into a parallel extreme 'religion'. It remains no longer a social theory where a detrimental ill-force is to be resisted by force only, where force does not have any conflict with knowledge and wisdom. We have heard stories on Swami Vivekananda. Imperative that he always believed in peace, and still reacted against detrimental force with force. We have heard similar stories on Sir Asutosh Mukhopadhyay, Ishwarchandra Vidyasagar and of course, Raja Rammohan Roy and the list never ends. Did they all not believe in peace? In fact, I believe that Gandhi's non-violence was also a huge man-force that outdid the inappropriate and miniscule proportion of the British force. 

Knowledge works to the limits of those who are educated enough, and in limited scopes, not beyond that. Non-violence guarantees zero loss of human lives but it is the show of a huge force against which violent devices are just too scanty. Every politician, diplomat and citizen know that, to curb a civil problem, no administration dare or afford to ignite and launch missiles or atomic bombs. Even an illiterate citizen of the state knows well that, including her/himself, the Indian social standards do not allow a remarkably pitiful percentage of the Indian mass to avail proper education. 

In such a state when the political stand of the leftists is only to blame it all on the lack of knowledge in the oppositions from their very own subjective perspectives, practically doing nothing commensurate to remove the existing force of Governance, the inevitable is the rejection by the people in the ballot boxes/EVM machines. 

Until and unless the leftists in Bengal refurbish themselves, the entire left-legion will walk towards extinction. Its first step to survive is to start believing in Marxism and other predominant leftist philosophies and theories as ever-evolving scientific theories like Darwinism, instead of making an eternal futile endeavour to force innocent and illiterate people to take it as a parallel religion to the existing ones. In that way, the power communism is highly diluted and people have stopped being ideological fools as they believe more in the moral and pragmatic reflections of the ideologies in the modern society. 

-        Arya Chatterjee


Read and think about the following lines. The leftists in Bengal have indulged this for decades to be on the side of the poor:  

 “It is true, of course, that the law is also frequently broken by the propertied and the wealthy, that is, by those who claim to be proper citizens inhabiting civil society. Thus, municipal building regulations, trade regulations, and tax laws are widely believed to be broken by the urban rich, many of whom, being influential and well connected, even flaunt their impunity. But these violations are unable to mobilize the moral justification that the illegalities of the poor manage to do in the arena of democratic politics. Indeed, the urban poor point to the violations practised by the rich as evidence not of the irrelevance of a moral order but of the unfair exceptions made by the authorities in favour of the rich; and, to restore the balance of fairness, they demand that similar exceptions be made for the poor. The rich usually defend their violations by corruption, evasion, or the blatant use of force; rarely can they make them objects of negotiation in political society.

From :
“Lineage of Political Society”
Partha Chatterjee


“এটা অবশ্যই সত্য যে, আইন প্রায়শই ভঙ্গ করা হয় সম্পত্তির অধিকারী এবং ধনীদের দ্বারা, অর্থাৎ যারা নাগরিক সমাজে বসবাসকারী সঠিক নাগরিক বলে দাবি করে। এইভাবে, মিউনিসিপ্যাল বিল্ডিং রেগুলেশন, ট্রেড রেগুলেশন, এবং ট্যাক্স আইন ব্যাপকভাবে শহুরে ধনী ব্যক্তিদের দ্বারা ভঙ্গ করা হয় বলে বিশ্বাস করা হয়, যাদের মধ্যে অনেকেই প্রভাবশালী এবং ভালভাবে যুক্ত, এমনকি তাদের দায়মুক্তি প্রকাশ করে। কিন্তু এই লঙ্ঘনগুলি গণতান্ত্রিক রাজনীতির ময়দানে গরীবদের বেআইনিতাগুলি যে নৈতিক ন্যায্যতা পরিচালনা করতে পারে তা একত্রিত করতে অক্ষম। প্রকৃতপক্ষে, শহুরে দরিদ্ররা নৈতিক আদেশের অপ্রাসঙ্গিকতার প্রমাণ হিসাবে ধনীদের দ্বারা চর্চা করা লঙ্ঘনের দিকে ইঙ্গিত করে না বরং ধনীদের পক্ষে কর্তৃপক্ষের দ্বারা করা অন্যায্য ব্যতিক্রমগুলির প্রমাণ হিসাবে; এবং, ন্যায্যতার ভারসাম্য পুনরুদ্ধার করতে, তারা দরিদ্রদের জন্য অনুরূপ ব্যতিক্রম করার দাবি জানায়। ধনীরা সাধারণত দুর্নীতি, ফাঁকি বা বল প্রয়োগের মাধ্যমে তাদের লঙ্ঘনকে রক্ষা করে; কদাচিৎ তারা তাদের রাজনৈতিক সমাজে আলোচনার বস্তুতে পরিণত করতে পারে”।